
Dear readers,
As a child I always wanted to adopt a child. It is not that I am against own child birth but in the country like mine where population has exploded. Orphans are treated like insects.
Don't you think it is more reasonable to adopt one and give him/ her a life of their dream than producing more. These orphan don't have big dreams, they just want a family who love them. Is it that difficult ? Well all children are same no matter if it is yours or adopted. They cry, smile, learn, want love, care and affection, make you laugh and smile with their silly questions and acts. Then why not adopt?
While thinking about this issue I got some of the advantage of adoption:
1. No labor pain - couldn't help but I really admire my mother who went under so much pain to get this pain of life time.
2. Enjoy life more - well when you are pregnant, you have to let go almost 5 years of your life starting from pregnancy till your child go to school. If you adopt, this time duration can reduce to some years depending upon the age of the child you adopt.
3. Don't feel depressed - God forbids, but if they have some hereditry disease you don't have to feel bad that it was because of your genes that they have it too..
4. Save Money - All that money you invest while pregnancy, delivery after child birth medicines and if you are not able to conceive - medical test, medicines, procedures to concieve, etc. You can save all that by just adopting.
I could think of more but then I realized the greatest advantage.... one contrary people who are against adoption says that it is different when it is your own. True biggets discrimination of all. Childrens are like angel no matter from where they come, they only become devil after certain age. It is in your hand to make them or break them.
Finally all I want to say is that-----Adopt one before you have one.