Dear readers,
As a child I always wanted to adopt a child. It is not that I am against own child birth but in the country like mine where population has exploded. Orphans are treated like insects.
Don't you think it is more reasonable to adopt one and give him/ her a life of their dream than producing more. These orphan don't have big dreams, they just want a family who love them. Is it that difficult ? Well all children are same no matter if it is yours or adopted. They cry, smile, learn, want love, care and affection, make you laugh and smile with their silly questions and acts. Then why not adopt?
While thinking about this issue I got some of the advantage of adoption:
1. No labor pain - couldn't help but I really admire my mother who went under so much pain to get this pain of life time.
2. Enjoy life more - well when you are pregnant, you have to let go almost 5 years of your life starting from pregnancy till your child go to school. If you adopt, this time duration can reduce to some years depending upon the age of the child you adopt.
3. Don't feel depressed - God forbids, but if they have some hereditry disease you don't have to feel bad that it was because of your genes that they have it too..
4. Save Money - All that money you invest while pregnancy, delivery after child birth medicines and if you are not able to conceive - medical test, medicines, procedures to concieve, etc. You can save all that by just adopting.
I could think of more but then I realized the greatest advantage.... one contrary people who are against adoption says that it is different when it is your own. True biggets discrimination of all. Childrens are like angel no matter from where they come, they only become devil after certain age. It is in your hand to make them or break them.
Finally all I want to say is that-----Adopt one before you have one.
2 comments:
Hi, This is Vineet from Banaras Hindu University, India. Your blog is quite interesting. I enjoyed reading. Keep it up. Best Wishes
Dear Aarushi,
I am happy about your thoughts with this young age :) your dream is really appreciated one.. but i want to share a little awareness about this...
Adoption of child is a great one, adopt a child and taking his/her to our home is not possible for everybody's life, but when u adopt a child as your own, first of all, the child must have interested and accepted us as parents, suppose once u adopted a child as your own, after some years later the own parents of that adopted child across your life then it affects that child more than you...
if every good hearts adopts child instead of own child.. the other group of worst people never care about thier own childrens of 7, 8.they simply lie them on dustbin, temples, near churches etc....
if the poor family adopts a child the child became lives as a poor. the criminals adopt childs and use them for illegal business.
Instead of this, where you find the children, it may be orphanages home or something else.... you can show love, give education , give care, give smile, be as mother or father or brother or sister there itself.. let them to live thier place and thier own life instead of taking them into our home, pushing our culture and our taste to them.....Not only you, your son or daughter can also care them after you..not only individual, we can contribute with a group of people. if one not able to contribute, the other can help the child.
AM extremely sorry if i hurt your thoughts. These are just some of my expereince what i have learned form this society... anyhave God blessed you for these greater thoughts with you in this young age:)
please forgive, if any grammar or spelling mistakes.
All the best for your future studies.
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